On Wednesday, a friend of mine had been in an accident at school that caused him to have an aneurysm and go into a coma. He passed away on Wednesday at the ripe young age of 13. He would have been 14 in April. A talented visual artist and friend, my school mourned for our loss and pulled together a memorial for him. We all dressed in white in his honor and came to school with flowers.
When I showed up, no one knew where to put the gifts and flowers. So I went over to the stone steps of my school and set my pot of flowers down on the top step with the picture I drew for him. Others followed suit and soon the whole staircase was filled with photos, cards, drawings and flowers.
At lunch, hundreds flocked to the memorial all wearing white. I decided to go onto the platform looking out and everyone was just...staring at the stairs. Some were crying, others looked...sad. Like they were in pain. The kid was a huge Hunger Games fan. Was an active member of the HG club at school and a friend came up and suggested we do the three finger solute that's a sign of admiration and also used as a "goodbye" to a loved one. Going up in front of everyone, I said my request and showed how the solute was done. Hundreds to maybe a thousand hands rose up following my lead. People closed their eyes and looked up at the sky as though praying. I captured this moment that I know will haunt me forever.
Ajay, you were such a good friend and the sweetest little brotherly figure anyone could have. A star was gained in the sky and an angel was reunited with heaven. Your skills were beyond your years and I can't believe you're gone. I hope you saw what we did for you, because for someone so young, you captured the heart of thousands. And we can't thank you enough.
I have no idea what it's like to have a friend pass away. But I know what's it's like to lose a loved one (Every single one of my grandparents). It sucks passes away. May your friend rest in peace.
It sucks to lose anyone. Losing a friend is hard because I miss seeing him around school, I miss talking to him online and I just miss everything about him. My grandparents are about to die and it'll be the same pain but at the same time it won't. If that makes sense.
Thank you. It's been almost 2 months and it still hurts to think about it. His birthday is coming up in two weeks and I can't believe he won't be turning 14 this year.